Life Excellence Newsletter Edition of
11/21/2001
7 Goals
Worth Pursuing
Enjoy your life journey as you pursue (and attract) each of
these elements into your life.
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving in the United States, as Americans
relax,
take in holiday parades, watch football games and eat
turkey and
stuffing. Wherever we live in the world, we truly
have much to be
thankful for-our family, our friends, our
health...
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Table of Contents:
1. Baby
Steps
2. Feature
Article: 7 Goals Worth Pursuing
3. Quotes
4. Recommended
Resources
5. Self-Care: The Common Cold
6. Make
a Difference
7. Final
Thoughts: Giving Thanks
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1. Baby Steps
Our series on goal setting concludes by discussing several
goals
worth pursuing. As you read today's newsletter, think about
where
you want to go in 2002, and your plan for getting there.
What
structures can you put in place that will help guide you
toward your
destination?
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2. Feature Article: 7 GOALS WORTH PURSUING
Before a commercial airplane takes off, the pilot has a very
clear
destination in mind, and a flight plan to get there. The
plane leaves
at a specific time, and takes off toward a specific
destination. The
plane is off track, though, at least 90% of the
time. Weather
conditions, turbulence and other factors cause
this.
However, feedback is given to the pilot constantly. The
inertial
guidance system of the aircraft continually helps the
pilot evaluate
and revise the plane's position to reach the
expected destination on
time. The plane takes off on time,
arrives on time, and yet is off
course 90% of the time.
Now imagine you are the plane. What is your destination? And
do
you have a flight plan to get there?
One of the common characteristics of highly successful people
is
that they are intensely goal-oriented. Successful people know
where
it is that they want to go in life, and they have a clear
plan to get
there. Their "destination" is the list of goals that
they have written
down, and their "flight plan" is the action
plan around those goals.
I do a lot of work with my clients around goal-setting, and
often
solicit feedback regarding the successes and challenges in
setting
and achieving goals. The question that I am most often
asked in this
area is "How do I set goals if I don't know what I
want to do?"
In response to this question, and as a conclusion to our series
on
goal-setting, here are seven goals worth pursuing:
1. Satisfying work or career. As Marsha Sinetar suggests
in her
bestselling book, Do What You Love, The Money Will
Follow.
We all want a career that is fulfilling and
nourishing, not draining.
Ideally, you are positioned on a
positive career path, leading to
increased opportunities and
raises. Hopefully, you also look
forward to going to work
virtually every day, and your earnings are
commensurate with the
effort you put into your job. You invest a
lot of our hours into
your work, so it's important that you are doing
something you
enjoy.
2. Personal development. The world is changing and, in
order to
succeed, we must change with it. The way to do this is
by growing
personally. First, read every day in your chosen
field. Next, listen to
audio tapes during your commute to work.
Take classes or attend
workshops. Finally, establish a support
structure to hold you
accountable for the results that you are
committed to achieving in
your life. Hiring a personal coach is a
great way to do this.
3. Financial freedom. In its simplest form, financial
freedom means
having no financial stress of any kind in your
life. Practical ways to
get to this point, if you aren't there
already, include saving 10% of
your income, having a reserve of
six months living expenses in the
bank (or a money-market
account) and having no credit card or
installment debt (other
than a mortgage). A big challenge for some,
but a worthy goal
nonetheless.
4. Great relationships. How are your relationships with
your family
(children, spouse, parents, siblings)? Do you have a
close circle of
personal friends? Don't forget relationships
within your professional
network (attorney, accountant and yes,
it's nice to know a plumber,
too). All these relationships are
important, and we can't spend too
much time nurturing them.
5. Health/Physical fitness. Health is extremely important,
and yet
we often take it for granted until we are affected by ill
health. Be
proactive in this area. Eat fresh, healthful foods.
Drink 8 glasses of
water per day. Limit your intake of caffeine,
sugar and alcohol.
Exercise at least 3 times per week, even if
that means walking for
15 or 20 minutes. Finally, get plenty of
sleep each night.
6. Spiritual peace. There is no substitute for peace of
mind, and the
way to obtain this is through a relationship with
God, or the spiritual
equivalent for you. Be involved in ongoing
spiritual growth.
Contribute both time and money to charitable
organizations and/or
your formal place of worship.
7. Fun/Pleasure. This is about taking time for yourself,
enjoying
whatever it is that you like to do. Consistently take
evenings,
weekends and holidays off. Take at least two weeks of
vacation
per year, to refresh/energize/nourish yourself. Be 100%
committed
to relaxation. While this time may seem unproductive to
some, it
will lead to greater productivity in the long run. And
it will be more
fun, too!
In the real estate business, they say that the best time to buy
real
estate was 10 years ago, and the second best time is NOW.
The
same goes for moving toward these "worthy goals." The
important
thing is not where you stand today in each of these
areas; it's the
direction in which you are moving. Enjoy the
journey as you pursue
(and attract) each of these elements into
your life!
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3. Quotes
I have learned this at least by my experiment: that if one
advances
confidently in the direction of his dreams, and
endeavors to live the
life which he has imagined, he will meet
with a success unexpected
in common hours. Henry David
Thoreau
All successful men and women are big dreamers. They imagine
what
their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they
work every
day toward their distant vision, that goal or purpose.
Brian Tracy
It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dreams of
yesterday
are the hopes of today, and the realities of tomorrow.
Unknown
It is almost impossible to watch a sunset and not dream.
Bern Williams
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4. Recommended Resources
Focal Point: A Proven System to Simplify Your Life, Double Your
Productivity, and Achieve All Your Goals
by Brian Tracy
Brian Tracy defines focal point as "the most important thing
you
can do at any given time to attain maximum results." Identify
the
focal points in each area of your life, then take action to
create
positive change in those areas.
To order book, click
here
The Inner Game of Work
by W. Timothy Gallwey
This book challenges you to reexamine your fundamental
motivations
for going to work, and redefines work as an
opportunity to sharpen
skills, increase pleasure and heighten
awareness.
To order book, click
here
Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow
by Marsha Sinetar
A must read book for anyone dissatisfied with their career.
Overcome
fears, learn to take risks, and evaluate and build
self-esteem.
To order book, click
here
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5. Self-Care: THE COMMON COLD
People seem to be getting more colds than ever in recent years
and,
unfortunately, there is still no cure for the common cold.
Here are a
few defenses to that unwanted illness:
Nurture your immune system. Getting plenty of rest, eating
well,
and exercising will strengthen your immune system, and
help
protect you from getting sick.
Take vitamin C supplements. Although the usefulness of
vitamin C
has been greatly debated, there's plenty of evidence
that vitamin C
strengthens resistance to viral infections.
When you feel yourself catching a cold, take echinacea (an
herbal
supplement) and zinc (available in lozenge form) to
ward it off and/
or shorten its duration. Both are very
effective, and I take both
simultaneously to accelerate recovery
once I have a cold.
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6. Make a Difference
World Vision
What began as one man's vision of a world without hunger,
disease
and hopelessness, has grown into the world's largest
Christian
international relief and development agency.
Through sponsorship, World Vision assists children in
struggling
communities throughout the world with food, education,
health care
and vocational training. The organization is
supported by monthly
contributions from donors.
For more information about sponsoring a child, click here.
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7. Final Thoughts: GIVING THANKS
For the hay and the corn and the wheat that is reaped,
For
the labor well done, and the barns that are heaped,
For the sun
and the dew and the sweet honeycomb,
For the rose and the song
and the harvest brought home --
Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving!
For the trade and the skill and the wealth in our land,
For
the cunning and strength of the workingman's hand,
For the good
that our artists and poets have taught,
For the friendship that
hope and affection have brought --
Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving!
For the homes that with purest affection are blest,
For the
season of plenty and well-deserved rest,
For our country
extending from sea unto sea;
The land that is known as the "Land
of the Free" --
Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving!
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